If we believe that something is negative, then it is negative.
If we associate pain with “bad”, then so shall it be.
If we believe that tarot cards and gemstones can be destroyed by energy, then they can. If we believe that our cards are always safe, then so they shall be.
For me, everything exists in the mind and in our attitude. It’s our very beliefs that create our reality… And we are powerful. We get to call the shots. We get to ascribe meaning to whatever we want ……and so it shall be.