This is my perception as to why it is so difficult to understand one another and why some conversations need to end.
The reason why it’s so difficult to understand each other is because I think we’re living in different bubbles (dimensions, frequencies). Each dimension or bubble we live in has different laws of the body and mind, different diets, and a different language. For example, if you and someone else live in a similar bubble, you’ll find that you don’t have to explain yourself to the other person. You just automatically get one another. Communication and friendship with this person will be effortless with minimal misunderstanding.
How to know if you’re living in different bubbles:
—You feel you need a translator. Language is different in each frequency. Words mean different things in different bubbles. In the bubble I belong to, for example, the word “God” means something entirely different from the bubble you might belong to. So when we are in different bubbles, we need to use disclaimers and define words clearly so others understand them. If you have to explain yourself often to people, you might be terrible at communicating clearly and/or you all are probably on different frequencies.
—You don’t get each other’s diet. All these diet wars are crazy. We just need to realize what is healthy to eat in one dimension is very unhealthy for different dimensions of existence. So, it makes no sense to bully someone for their diets. If you DO attempt to change your diet in your bubble, you may be able to handle it for a while, but eventually you will return to your own bubble’s diet laws until you transcend that bubble. In other words, you have to listen to your body since it knows where you need to be right now.
—Beliefs and Attitude will greatly differ. For example, what is considered to be kind in one dimension is considered rude in another. Crying is a weakness in some dimensions while crying is a strength in others. Happiness is of most important in some dimensions whereas in others freedom is. The laws are very different from one bubble to the next.
It is similar to communicating with people in different countries. Thumbs up in America might mean that you’re hungry in another country. So, when we are living in different frequencies, it’s the same.
Culture Shock! Everytime you misunderstand someone or judge them, you might be experiencing culture shock.
We tell people they’re living in their own world. It’s no accident. It’s not even a metaphor. It’s real. It’s literally, so.
Then on top of all that, we are mutated differently. This explains all the judgment. We cannot possible judge another when we understand them.
People who don’t get you, you cannot really blame them… They are just living in different dimensions. If you don’t understand someone else, it’s not because they are wrong and you are right. It’s just that you’re both literally living in entirely different worlds.
Even in our own bubbles, there’s a form of nationalism or state pride going on there. So many of us think the laws, the language, the culture and the diet in our bubbles are the right way and the only way when the truth is, there is no right or wrong way to be or live. There are only different frequencies out there. You’ve tried tuning a radio to find there are certain frequencies that come super clear and that’s because you are sharing a similar frequency bubble. Some stations come in moderately clear, so you are further away from that dimension/frequency/bubble. Some stations or people you cannot understand at all and it’s because they are too far away from your frequency. Not right or wrong. Just different bubbles. Different countries.
Not understanding someone can be traumatic for some, so as a means of coping with it, we judge and make them wrong or shut them out of our lives. We are only traumatized because we are so patriotic about our own countries/bubbles. We hang our flags high and go to wars with other bubbles.
Welcome to the Human Experience!
The more we practice at this Game of Life, the more we see that we’re all doing the best we can with what we have and that there is nothing to judge or fear, that there is no real division, no real persecution. We begin to embrace and appreciate all dimensions. We also will notice that we are constantly moving through different frequencies as we mature. So, you might live in one frequency now, but two years ago, you used to live in another bubble and two years from now, you’ll probably be living in a different one. Depending on your mutations, how fast you learn and why you are here will depend on how long you stay in each dimension. You stay as long as you think you need to in order to learn the lessons there. In each bubble we learn different lessons. Once you get really good at this, you can even play dimension hopping for fun! This teaches us how to respect other people’s dimensions and lesson plans.
Understanding yourself is its own frequency that once you are in, you automatically and effortlessly understand others. The walls of each bubble just melt.