Over the years, I have developed my own measuring stick to see if someone might be genuine or not. I am more likely to give unpopular ordinary people a chance. The truth is offensive, inconvenient, unpopular, controversial, painful and what eventually liberates us. The more challenged you feel by the information, sometimes this might mean you could be hearing truth because they are making you question your old programs and comfortable way of living. Genuine healers repel others sometimes because they will shake your foundation and get you to eventually start questioning things. Facing the truth is a painful process and an emotional detox comes with it, but you will be better for it. Nothing good comes from comfort. The butterfly works her ass off for those wings.