The Highest Honesty

When we think of honesty sometimes, we might think of badass women telling people off, we think of people cursing, we might think of inflexibility, or overly rigid boundaries that oppress or victimize others. And while that might be a good start, I feel the deepest and realest form of honesty is vulnerability and talking... Continue Reading →

Condemnation is Common

We all condemn each other. The only difference between one person and another is whether they condemn overtly, covertly, quietly or subconsciously. Anyone who has any trauma in their background is going to attract people into their lives to trigger them enough to go back and heal their original wounds. Anyone who has trauma (repressed... Continue Reading →

Are your choices your own?

​We might not be experiencing REAL consistent choices until we begin the healing process and start deprogramming. Until then, choice or free will is illusory. Many of our decisions we think we are freely making, our thought processes and patterns, might be really old dusty running programs in our head. We don't have consciousness until... Continue Reading →

Premature Forgiveness

​We might unconsciously forgive our perpetrators prematurely because this way, we don't need to feel the deepest parts of our pain. Premature cognitive forgiveness, like false positivity and false gratefulness, work as a form of dissociation since the survivor might not be ready to or want to go deeper right now. If people were more... Continue Reading →

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