We all condemn each other. The only difference between one person and another is whether they condemn overtly, covertly, quietly or subconsciously. Anyone who has any trauma in their background is going to attract people into their lives to trigger them enough to go back and heal their original wounds. Anyone who has trauma (repressed trauma too), will condemn or secretly be critical of others. Don’t believe for one second that there are unhealed people out there that don’t condemn.