The “They Are Imperfect Humans” Excuse

​"They are only human" "Nobody's perfect" ...in defense of child molesters and those ​complicit? OK. Fair enough. I really do think it is important to see we are all imperfect humans who make mistakes. But if they are mistakes, then we need to own them by resisting the temptation to justify them and apologize by... Continue Reading →

Demystifying Psychic Awareness of Others

Reading people is normal. Maybe not common, but normal. We are all hardwired from birth to see people beneath their mask and into their subconscious mind. Babies do this. Children are wildly aware of everything. It is not woo to see the depths of people with clarity. We are all connected in spirit; this is... Continue Reading →

Women on Women Sexism

I think the worst sexism doesn't come from men, but from other women. I see women tearing other women down all the time. Women who post selfies, for starters.... So many women feel uncomfortable when other women post their selfies often. The prettier, the more self-assured and the happier these women appear to be, the... Continue Reading →

Is it impossible to heal completely?

Today, I challenge the notion that we can never heal completely. I think it really depends on if we are talking about getting it all done in this lifetime or at all in terms of eternity. My opinions are based on the belief that our souls are eternal and that reincarnation is real. From the... Continue Reading →

What Are My Dreams About?

I think your dreams stem from the subconscious aspect of yourself that exist to help you become more aware of the issues that you need to work on. Dreams, if we pay attention, help us become self-aware and more in tune with how we feel inside the deeper aspects of ourselves. Dreams show us what... Continue Reading →

The Problem with Gratefulness

Gratefulness can be another bypass trap. I think gratefulness is a divine virtue, but like forgiveness, it's got to be authentic. I can sit around here and tell you all what I am grateful about, but unless I really mean it and unless I am TRULY embodying it through my own ACTIONS, it's just a... Continue Reading →

Addressing Ego-bashing

The more we bash the ego as bad, the more time it might take to heal and disidentify with it. The ego is not wrong. It's our inner child. It came to life to hold on to our traumas so that we could function in the world. The only reason you're still breathing now is... Continue Reading →

On Being Seduced by Power

We all say we love authenticity, but then we celebrate, applaud and may even get turned on when other's authenticity and free expression is shut down and censored by banhammer mentalities. Authority is SEXY. Power is SEXY. Iron Fist Rule is SEDUCTIVE. I sit back and observe this human phenomenon and other's seduction to tyrannical... Continue Reading →

Double Standards and Authority Worship

Outside the universal problems and implications of authority worship I have is that so long as one is in a position of popularity, status, hero-ship or authority, they can have all the boundaries they want, all the discernment they want, and all the quirks they have. They are allowed to have flaws. In fact, their... Continue Reading →

Anger

I often feel shame after using my voice firmly. ​I was raised to be a "nice girl" (polite, lady-like, quiet, docile, and people-pleasing). Many of us women were raised this way, yes? When I express my voice firmly, ​I always feel like I have done something terribly wrong. The shame is crippling. People don't even... Continue Reading →

How to Manipulate Public Opinion

The best way to get people to go atheist is to delegitimize God through fundamentalist organized religion. The best way to get people to eat on a certain diet is by manufacturing idiots to represent the opposition. The best way to get people to become liberal is by manufacturing an unsavory opposing party. The best... Continue Reading →

Is Trauma Generational?

Trauma is generational in that we, with the use of our own Free Will, continue the cycle. That is the only 'generational' thing about it and it's not a "curse" either. If your mother was subjected to molestation in her youth, it is not your responsibility to heal it for her. She is responsible to... Continue Reading →

Everything is Really Real

There is so much emotional and spiritual stagnancy because our culture is all about invalidating our feelings as imaginary. And it's because of this, we have learned to invalidate ourselves. It's also how we avoid painful memories and emotions. When everything is imaginary, a story, an illusion, a projection and a dream, we remain unconsciously... Continue Reading →

On Gratefulness

You can be going through a hell of a time, feeling all sorts of emotions and cursing the world and STILL be grateful all at once. Just because someone is going through a rough patch, does not automatically mean they aren't grateful for what they DO have. Also, you cannot teach someone to be grateful.... Continue Reading →

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