The Trap of Black and White Thinking

Extremes live in a box. And at some point, we might feel suffocated and exhausted. One of the most difficult things to do is appreciate and see all the complex shades of gray in life. Often, we only see black or white, this extreme or that extreme. Liberal vs conservative, atheist vs believer, man vs... Continue Reading →

The Struggle to Actualize Dreams

....And overcoming the inner and outer Debbie Downers of the world..... There will be people who will try and stop your light, people who will be unconsciously jealous and people who will label and misunderstand your passion for a pathology. Don't give them that power, let them go and do what you want anyway. I... Continue Reading →

An Alternative to Passive Aggression

A perfect way to see our past is through the relationships we have with others in the present. Wonky relationships in the present are sometimes associated with pathological relationships we have had with our role models growing up. We might normalize a dysfunctional upbringing (if we haven't completely repressed it) as a means to cope,... Continue Reading →

Love Like an Animal Can

The reason why so many of us prefer nonhuman animals as companions is probably because animals really know how to be a friend. The nonhuman animal will love you if you are cranky, enraged, self-pitying, depressed, helpless, hopeless, terrified, grief-stricken, can't get over it, sad, stuck, unmotivated, whiny, angry, impatient, negative, ignorant, fat, sick or... Continue Reading →

In Balance We Trust

​My opinion on the importance of duality or yin and yang. We curse the Dark as it should not even be allowed here. We complain about the negative and the dark aspects of ourselves, others and life, but the truth is that everything that exists is needed. It doesn't mean we have to like it,... Continue Reading →

Learning By Contrast

What better way to learn judgment isn't kind than to be on the receiving end of judgement ourselves? While being judged might feel like a curse at first, it's a blessing in disguise if we use it as tool to learn not to judge others....since we know how it feels. And we might not learn... Continue Reading →

The Challenge to Be Kind

It is easy to be kind to those who are just like us. But if we are the kind people we say we are, we will even be kind to those who are different from us. That is how true kindness works. Can you co-exist with someone who marches to a different drum? Or do... Continue Reading →

Duality in Harmony

We may not feel safe in the scariest deepest darkest depth of our shadow unless there is a ray of light to help us feel safe to 'go there'. And we may not be able to embody light unless we have first faced, fully, the dark. This could be the Divine Law of Opposites at... Continue Reading →

THE SOUL’S JOURNEY

I have been the mother and the daughter. I have been the father and the son. I have been the slave. I have been the master, the victim, the perpetrator. I have been every species, been to every country and have spoken every tongue. I have experienced every season and every climate. I have died... Continue Reading →

Emotion as a Catalyst to Growth

I often hear "If Source is love, why does life hurt so much?" "Why does Source allow bad things to happen?" Could it be we feel that way due to our conditioning that hardship is a bad thing? If we use our challenges as a catalyst to make ourselves better people, then we can see... Continue Reading →

The Universe Needs You

The thing is, we ALL have gifts! Nobody is better than anyone. We ALL have something to offer this world. If you don't see that now, you will later. If YOU did not exist, all the Universes would collapse. Why? Because, again, the Universes NEED your UNIQUE spark and SPECIAL gifts. Even if you think... Continue Reading →

Shine Your Own Light

Jealousy is not a problem; it's the symptom of not recognizing your own gifts and expressing them. Whatever goes unexpressed or unrecognized is acted out as resentment and hatred toward those who have acknowledged their own greatness. Happiness is an inside job. We all have free will. We can choose to be other people's victims... Continue Reading →

Why Judgment Makes Little Sense

I have been reading these two books and while they don't mention "astrology" or our "astrological charts", they are all about how we create our own "charts" before we incarnate on Earth. Before we incarnate, we have "pre-birth planning sessions" with our spirit guides and our soul group and during those sessions we create a... Continue Reading →

The World is a Stage

"The world we exist in is a stage. That people sign up to play roles of "good and bad" people. Since they are performances, they are actors playing the role of the bad guy. For example, Desdemona doesn't go up to Othello after the play and say "You killed me!" Rather they comment on how... Continue Reading →

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